'Hmmm. No I'm not. I asked an objective opinion from their dad and he agrees.
Anyway, the problem with developing the skills to be a good Mom, is that those skills are not really needed for as long as it takes to develop them. By the time you learn to ignore the minor details and focus on the fun and creativity. By the time you know a thousand kids songs and can mix playdough and finger paint from common kitchen ingredients, by the time you can smile and get giggles while cleaning up a baby with the flu. They are not babies.